My first post here so I apologise if it's in the wrong place....

I'm reloading .44 using a RL550b, Dillon size and power dies and a Lee seating and crimp die. I'm using Vihtavuori N320 powder, 240gr Lead SWC with 1.) 8.1gr powder and 2.) 6.0gr powder.
The pistol is a long barrelled Taurus .44 (Mod 66 ? - I'm in the UK so it's just referred to as a Taurus .44 LBR)
When using factory ammunition it shoots fine - what I expect from the gun and me.
When I use home loads the bullets tumble, going through the target sideways.. from 15 yrds out to 25. Distance doesn't seem to matter. Both 6gr and 8gr do the same.
The gun has been thoroughly cleaned and checked... no bulges etc. and the cylinder bores are as they should be. The fact it shoots fine with factory would suggest it's not the gun.
So.... I've tried:-
Changing the load - no difference.
Changing the crimp - no difference.
Checked the powder - good for purpose.
I've pushed a head down the barrel manually to get a sizing at the forcing cone. As far as I can tell the bullet measures .429/.430 - as it should be.
I could load using jacketed heads to try. I could change the bullet weight. I could change the powder...... heeeelp
But I'm at a loss as to where to look or what the problem might be.
So, over to the experts who can point me in the right direction and forgive my ignorance and stupidity if that's what it is... (after running away and hiding)
I look forwards to your suggestions and ideas....
Thanks.