I really don't see why I should have to put up with this, to just sit here and take it. Am I really to go away because some people are so unpleasant that they think that anybody who has the temerity to disagree with them is fair game for being insulted and traduced? Am I really to worry that if I stick up for myself it will just make things worse?
What do you do with bullies, try to appease them, or fight back? What's the ethos of the forum - the sort of thing I'm getting here, or the sort of thing it says here:
https://www.full-bore.co.uk/viewtopic.php?f=19&t=36 ?
I've had disagreements with at least one person in this thread, and a mix-up with another due to my own f-up, which I admitted and apologised for.
Somehow I've managed to do it without petulantly demanding apologies, or calling people tossers or arrogant prats.
So what now? Shut up so that those who insult me don't have to carry on doing it? Kinda feels like that is letting the bullies win. Take the fight to them and end up in a cycle of off-topic, derailing posts all because they cannot or will not behave properly? Report them to teacher?
Fedaykin wrote:I have nothing more to say to you.
Apart from insults.
Fedaykin wrote:Nothing I wrote was evidence free you arrogant prat!
Yes it was:
Fedaykin wrote:You are clearly here to wind people up
And now you've done it again.
Fedaykin wrote:You are a wind up merchant, nothing more or less.
Fedaykin wrote:I am not calling you a liar
If I say that I am not here just to wind people up, if I say that I am not trolling, then any assertion that I am doing those things can only mean that the person making that assertion does not believe my denials, i.e. does not believe that I am being truthful.
What's the word used to describe people who say things which are untrue?
Every time you accuse me of being a wind-up merchant you are accusing me of being a liar.
Join a club and try to get a FAC or ship off!
Once those boxes are ticked, I will still not agree that you are right to impugn the honesty of those who take a different view to you of what the "spirit" of the law means they should do, I will still not be lying when I say I'm not trolling or trying to wind people up, and I will still not be happy to passively remain silent when called an arrogant prat.
Once those boxes are ticked will you stop being insulting?